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The trouble with some women is that they get all excited about nothing,and then they marry him.
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The trouble with some women is that they get all excited about nothing,and then they marry him.
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I am just making observations about the use of them, and I have never used one. I did once have a pony I rode in a homemade bitless bridle, as her mouth had been so abused she was a different horse when you took the bit from her mouth. I have ridden countless horses over the years in their halters too! However this does not make me any sort of expert on a hackamore

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Its got to the point where i cant even be bothered riding him at the moment, even in the paddock he's spooking,bucking and generally causing trouble. Guess its the autumn flush, not quite sure what to do about it. Cant afford all these toxin binders and god knows what, I guess I have to wait and hope he calms down. We seem to wind each other up big time at the moment- hes 12 too and done a lot of competition work etc and should damm well know better.If I had a hackamore I would probably use it to strangle him with!!!
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The trouble with some women is that they get all excited about nothing,and then they marry him.
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I'd just like to comment on the "pulling" comments with regards to riding...the horse can only pull if it has something to pull against ie; YOUR HANDS! That then begs the question, WHO is the one doing the pulling? It's an easy trap to fall into as your first instinct is to pull on the reins when the horse starts to get towey & stops listening but unfortunately, this reaction just compounds the problem.
If you want avoid the pulling, learn to ride on independent reins (one rein at a time) & ride with your seat & legs first, backed up by your hands. Learning to do a one-rein stop is invaluable for reschooling horses that pull! Timing is probably the single most important thing of all! You need to be able to give the rein back to the horse the second you feel him begin to shift his weight in response. If you keep holding until he's actually stopped, he will miss your point completely & not get the reward. Try this from a standstill & ask him to rein back. Take up a soft & steady hold on both reins (yes, I know I said indiependent reins earlier but this is to teach him to give to pressure) & just wait...you'll find he'll probably start throwing his head around, trying to step forward, etc but just maintain the same soft hold & wait for him to find the comfortable place. He'll eventually start to lean his weight back before he actually takes a backward step. GIVE NOW! As soon as you feel that shift in weight, don't wait for the actual step, he'll follow through with that.
Once you've both mastered that & he's listening & happy to give to pressure, do the same in walk & trot but use your seat to block his forward movement before gently closing your fingers on the reins. Get this going well at home first & then you can do the same when you're out & will (hopefully) have a little more control when he gets excited. If he stops listening when he's out, abandon the two reins & go for a one-rein stop. You can then get him stopped abruptly & give again straight away. He'll soon get the idea that it's a LOT less hassle just to walk (or whatever pace you put him in) on a loose rein. If he was mine, I'd make him walk everywhere on a loose rein until he can cope with other horses rushing past him. Once he can deal with that, he can trot & when he can cope with that calmly, THEN he can canter. (This is how I reschool bolters).
I have recently started breaking a few horses to bitless bridles & have found that I have the same level of control with these (I use the Light Rider) as with a bit. You should ALWAYS be riding with a light contact, whether you use a bit or not. A snaffle will do as much damage as your hackamore if you're rough with it.
There is absolutely no reason why a horse should go on the forehand in a bitless bridle anymore than a bitted bridle (or no bridle). It all comes down to how they're ridden. This should illustrate my point...
Currently, you can compete bitless (including hackamores) in jumping events but not in dressage.
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Oh i googled the light rider bridle too...very interesting. Where do you buy them from?
The trouble with some women is that they get all excited about nothing,and then they marry him.
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The Light Rider bridles are either available direct from Cynthia in Tasmania or you can order them from Alannah at OK Corral Saddlery in West Auckland ( okcorral.co.nz/ ). Alannah wasn't stocking bitless bridles cause she hadn't found one that she liked. I was in the same boat & told her about these ones so she ordered one in for me to trial on a few horses (mine & my clients') & I REALLY like it so I bought it off her.
My youngster has a very high opinion of himself & can be a bit "yahooey" sometimes so I need something that will give me brakes when I need them. This stops him in his tracks when I need to get drastic but is nice & soft when he's being cooperative.
Yes, be patient & just remember, it WILL pay off! Ray Hunt used to say "time means nothing to the horse" & that's something I have to constantly remind myself. Your boy is only young too so you have HEAPS of time to get things going the way you want. [

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Devan, are you ok with me piggybacking on your post still? I have a question to pose that may or not also be your thing or at least others, and happy to post independently if you wish... but it relates to that link and how Stacey was seated, compared to my previous younger seat... (that I find I am still doing)...
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The trouble with some women is that they get all excited about nothing,and then they marry him.
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So how does One train back into getting an even grip? Stacey just seemed to sit there regardless....
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It's something that goes straight through the system.
You can buy all those fancy pants "magnesiums" like "alleviate" etc, but good old "MAG" from the farm store will do wonders.
FYI Buddy has been more pillock like the past week alright - few days of rain, couple of wicked sunshine and bobs your spooky uncle!!! EEK! All under control now - blinkin' horses!
Swaggie & Devan - how is your Easter break riding going?!?!?
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