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16 years 1 month ago #186125 by Dream Weaver
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thoughts with you today Liew, hugs

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16 years 1 month ago #186145 by jeannielea
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My thoughts are with you too Spook and hope in the next days you can share memories with others and can find comfort in how precious they are.
Louise, thoughts with you too and the memories you have and knowing you have done everything you could,will keep you going.

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16 years 1 month ago #186170 by eelcat
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deepest sympathy Spook. Your dad died surrounded by love, the best way to go.

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16 years 1 month ago #186200 by ardnas
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(((HUGs))) to you Spook. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

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16 years 1 month ago #186575 by reggit
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(((hugs))) spoook from us too...

Take a break...while I take care of your home, your block, your pets, your stock! [;)] PM me...

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16 years 1 month ago #187255 by spoook
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Hi guys, I am still around. :)
Thanks again for all your thoughts.
The funeral is on Tuesday, we are having a service for him in Massey, a church his mother would have been to when she was visiting a few years ago, and he is being buried at Wainui, it is a beautiful little cemetary.
So much to do to organise it all, choose this, choose that, would you like. this and that. Remind me to make my wishes clear, and the same to all of you out there.
It is not an easy job to decide how to end the dash we have between arrival and leaving.
The Dash
My aunt has come over from Perth, she is great, it is so good to have someone else to liase with the church (not a language I speak [:I]) and help make the awkward decisions.

When mum died three years ago it was, sort of, easy afterwards, we just carried on our lives and my father just carried on his. This time there is so much to do, the house needs to be sorted and so much legal stuff needs to be done.
We also have a major issue to face. Anyone on here legal minded, a lawyer maybe?? If so please PM me, I have an issue I am not sure how to approach.

See, always learning. I now know how to link without showing the address. :D

There are no bad questions only those that are not asked.
"You are responsible, forever, for what you have tamed"

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16 years 1 month ago #187262 by chooky
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Thinking of you Spoook and I hope you give your Dad a good send off.
Isn't the internet great for when you are looking for those special poems , pieces of music etc for occassions such as funerals .
My FIL wanted 'The sunny side if the street ' played at his service so we were able to get a friend to track it down on the net and burn it off to CD . I know what you are saying - there is a lot to organize eh ?

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16 years 1 month ago #187439 by Giddyup
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Jeez... if it's not one thing it's another Spoook. I can't imagine what it's like for you right now, but it's terrible to go through this.
There's nothing anyone can say to make the pain go away, but from reading this, so many people care.
When all said and done, people here will be waiting to help you through the best that they can.
Hugs and thoughts...:o:o

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16 years 1 month ago #187530 by Dream Weaver
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Remember amongst all this planning and thinking and running around etc to take time out for YOU!! You have been through an awful lot lately and even 10 mins a day just for "YOUR" time would be good. I am sure you will give your Dad a great send off. I remember when my mum went and your right there is so much to do and think of, its a big job and one thats not easy when you are in the grieving process. go gently on yourself.

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16 years 1 month ago #187541 by DiDi
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Well said Smilie.

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16 years 1 month ago #187545 by The Kats Place
I will be thinking of you tomorrow Spoook, hope it all goes well.

kats
Live your life in such a way that it will be easy for people to say nice things at your funeral [;)]

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16 years 1 month ago #187553 by kate
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Me too....

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16 years 1 month ago #187564 by Pumpkingirl
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And me...

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16 years 1 month ago #187577 by terralee
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God Bless Spoook

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16 years 1 month ago #187581 by maggies mum
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Thoughts and good wishes from us all too.

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